The Wiccan Rede

Bide the Wiccan Laws we must In Perfect Love and Perfect Trust. Live and let live. Fairly take and fairly give. Cast the Circle thrice about To keep the evil spirits out. To bind the spell every time Let the spell be spake in rhyme. Soft of eye and light of touch, Speak little, listen much. Deosil go by the waxing moon, Chanting out the Witches' Rune. Widdershins go by the waning moon, Chanting out the baneful rune. When the Lady's moon is new, Kiss the hand to her, times two. When the moon rides at her peak, Then your heart's desire seek, Heed the North wind's mighty gale, Lock the door and drop the sail. When the wind comes from the South, Love will kiss thee on the mouth. When the wind blows from the West, Departed souls will have no rest. When the wind blows from the East, Expect the new and set the feast. Nine woods in the cauldron go, Burn them fast and burn them slow. Elder be the Lady's tree, Burn it not or cursed you'll be. When the Wheel begins to turn, Let the Beltane fires burn. When the Wheel has turned to Yule, Light the log and the Horned One rules. Heed ye Flower, Bush and Tree, By the Lady, blessed be. Where the rippling waters go, Cast a stone and truth you'll know. When ye have a true need, Hearken not to others' greed. With a fool no season spend, Lest ye be counted as his friend. Merry meet and merry part, Bright the cheeks and warm the heart. Mind the Threefold Law you should, Three times bad and three times good. When misfortune is enow, Wear the blue star on thy brow. True in Love ever be, Lest thy lover's false to thee. Eight words the Wiccan Rede fulfill: An ye harm none, do what ye will.
- Blessed Be -
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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

How to bounce back

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Found this out on the web but lost this link.

How to Win an Ex Back
Three powerful and time tested strategies to win an ex back and bring back happiness to your life

1. Take a good look at yourself: When you first fall in love with your partner, what type of a

person were you? In the first place, your partner was attracted to you because he/she

feels good about you, and you were fulfilling his/her emotional needs. Sure enough when a

partner strays, others will tell you ‘people change'. However, I want you to take a moment

and think “Have I changed?” Be that person whom your partner was once deeply in love

with. Your partner strays because his/her needs are not fulfilled. Think of what you can

do to save the relationship. Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Remember, you have to

change in order for the external world to change.

2. Do not stick to your partner like glue:

Practice detachment. Never show your desperation and craving no matter how bad

you want him/her back. This will only make your situation worse. Make sure you don’t

make it seem like you want him/her back. Be a carefree and independent person. As

mentioned earlier, you must be able to give her true and unconditional love no matter what

happens. At the same time, cultivate the hobbies and attitude as such that you are fully

responsible for your owns happiness. You really do not need to depend on another

person to experience happiness and peace. If you learn to cultivate this pattern, you will

realize that your lover will be the one who is scared of losing you!

3. Do not stop them from seeing other people:

If you start to complain, cry and whine, that you will instantly drive him/her away to that

third party! Human nature is as such that the more you stop them from having something,

the more they want it! On the other hand, respect his/her choices and freedom. Do not

let jealousy set in. Let them do whatever they please and let them know that you will always

be there. Soon they will realize that you are a better person than your rivals as you respect

them more than anyone else does.

Go out and take a breather. Staying at home and thinking of the breakup will not help you win back your ex. Spend some time to analyze the situation and find out the reasons that caused the breakup.  Do not beg your ex to come back. Change any bad habits that you have. Do not try to change, manipulate, force, threaten and restrict him/her; You must be able to give true and unconditional love to him/her no matter what happen; Respect his/her choices; Remember what happened to cause you two to break up and don't let it  happen again. If you broke up because one of you were jealous, show him/her that things have changed and that you have more trust in him/her. You can't really control other people, so don't try too hard Give up and face reality if its not working.  If your ex was the one to end the relationship then it is likely that they won't want you back so try just being friends and maybe in the future they may change their mind, don't push it

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